How to be yourself

How to Be yourself.

Being yourself is loving the way you are and expressing yourself. For some it means not hiding things about yourself so that others might love you.

There are multiple steps to being yourself…..

#1 . Find what you are. There is actually a very easy way to do it, just close your eyes, and think, imagine that you are dead, and you go to god and he asks you, ok, I gave you brain to think, hands to work, legs to walk and eyes to see, what have you done with that, write down your answer, that is your character quality, make your character around that.

# 2 . Stop caring about other people’s opinions.. Reality is, no one cares, and other people are too busy living life of someone else that they don’t have time to judge you. And whatever” preliminary “judgment they make, it’s almost always wrong! You are not as ugly as you think they think. You are not as fat as you think others think.

# 3. BE honest about what you are. You are not James bond, and you are not Marilyn Monroe. And neither are they! So stop acting like one, movies have created a perfect human in movies who can fight with a hundred guys , and dodge through bullets, and still come scratch less and gets the girl! Well in real life it never comes out this way, if you still can’t get that out of your mind, just visit any movie set, and your assumptions would be cleared.

#4. Relax. Stop worrying about the worst case scenario, it never happens, it’s all your imagination, instead try to focus on what you are as well as the best case scenario, if you are a sales man, and going to a new customer for business, don’t think you won’t get the business, instead think, what if he suddenly got a million bucks and he is going to spend it all on my product today.

# 5. Develop and express you! : know yourself and express yourself. Learn what makes you different from others and be proud of it, don’t’ change yourself to fit in, instead increase your society, society is just the people you know. Always believe in the quote that, people laughed coz I was different, I laughed coz they all are same.

# 6. Responsible, There is an old saying, there are two types of people in this world, one who do one thing throughout their life, and others who all of the things in their one life.

It’s your choice who you want to be.

#7. always remember the rule, love for who you are, and soon people will love you for it.

If you keep on trying to be someone else, people won’t respect you ever and you will never be a happy person. be your own best friend.

There are always problems in the process also!.

You can be yourself but always remember NOT to be imposing your opinions on others, you have a right to express yourself and so do others, always remember there are always three sides to a problem, yours, second parties, and the right one. Don’t agree with someone for sake of agreeing or disagreeing for the sake of disagreeing, both bring problem of Ego in the problem and there is no solution to ego.

Even if you are interested in something that is considered boring for most people, do it coz you like it, people will love to respect it and like it if you are doing it good enough.

Don’t worry about the future, and think about the past, you cannot do anything about the either of two. The best you can do is, prepare for the future and live the present!