How to find yourself

Finding yourself.

Finding yourself is finding yourself a belief system that you are willing to live your life by. You start doing things for others without expecting that they give you something in return, and the problematic problem of ego vanishes, you do things just because you want to do them regardless of whether you are getting something in return for them or not.

#1 Clear your mind of everything, forget everything for a moment, and think, how do you want to be remembered as in your life, select one of these character qualities, not because they feel good or sound good, because you know have that quality.

• Acceptance
• Friendliness
• Self-discipline
• Accountability
• Honesty
• Self-respect
• Behavior
• Integrity
• Sportsmanship
• Citizenship
• Kindness
• Temper
• Compassion
• Manners
• Temptation
• Courtesy
• Morals
• The Golden Rule
• Conduct
• Patience
• Tolerance
• Confidence
• Perseverance
• Truthfulness
• Dependability
• Reliability
• Trustworthiness
• Determination
• Respect
• Values
• Endurance
• Responsibility
• Virtue
• Ethics
• Self-Control
Stop thinking about others, bother about yourself first, you can never please everyone, there is someone somewhere always who is going to say something he shouldn’t be saying. If you keep on adjusting to what others expect you to be, you can never be anyone.

#2. remove yourself from the society. Got a quiet place everyday and think about what happened that day, think about where you are from, where you are and where you are going in life, you’ll learn a LOT from this exercise alone.

#3. ask yourself the questions no one would dare to answer.

For ex. If I had all the money in the world, what would I be doing?
What would you regret in your life,
Choose three words to describe yourself, you got the idea.!

#4. Start to Do things compared to Start Thinking .
Doing things is infinitely better than thinking about doing things, there is an old saying: a bathroom and bedroom are the worlds most productive places, more idea are generated and thrown down the drain than all the ideas generated in a lifetime of worlds best labs!.

#5. Finding yourself is the journey; life is a journey and not the end in itself, it’s all trial and error, and you have to go through it like everyone else, learn that pride is not in never falling but getting up every time you fall, the ones who never lost are the ones who never walked in the first place!.

Problems.

Learn to love people, but trust the ones with character only,
You are never the person people say you are.
Never think you are the only one who is going through the bad time.
Never let anyone influence your mind, never let others tell you who you think you should think you are. You’ll find someone else every time.
Never let others tell you what you should do, something that worked for others may never work for you.
Don’t change yourself constantly so as to “ fit in” especially true with physical appearances.